CNN segment on Yelling instead of spanking

After you get through the commercials, this segment has some great food for thought! The bottom line is spanking's a definite no-no. AS for yelling-How much do you do? They say mom's do more because the dad is not around as much and stress is on the mom's shoulders. Sound Familiar!!!

Great video

Just posted on Pages of Parenting Bookstore Facebook account a video on some old idea's that your moms and grandma's used to do-that really are a great idea and a good thing to get back into your routine. I'm not going as far to say pearls and all- just these ideas on the video are a great addition. If you are doing them now- a big pat on the back

Pages of Parenting Bookstore facebook account

Nurture Shock

FYI. There is a new book out called Nurture Shock. You can see it on the store website www.pagesofparenting.com. The authors are going to be on all of the talk shows and last week NPR had a discussion on the book. Based on some interesting research- some of the content is any eye opener-I do have copies in the store also. They say this will change the way parenting is looked at today. One point they made was that parents today praise to much. They go on the show the consequences of that action. I've told many people about the study they published. I can see incorporating some of their ideas with what you already have in place-As the story goes one step at a time.

How do we teach Civics?

After the disrespect shown to the President last night, what example are we showing our children? I do understand that we are to value our opinion and teach them to do likewise, but teaching them when and how would be what's needed here. Just recently we were telling our daughter that it's ok that we don't agree on a decision she has made (She's 23). It is important to respect each other in the process of understanding each others side. What example did we learn last night? It is up to you as parents to teach with conviction and temper with silence. Show them better ways to express themselves without diminishing the other persons view. To offset the public display, we need to be an example at home. Do you want your kids yelling at you and calling you a liar?

Manners- Make that a summer goal

Being that families spend more time together during the summer time, you and your spouse can make this a great time to work on manners with your kids. I hear so many adults say that this is one thing that is going by the wayside. Good manners can be such a great asset when all grown up and looking for that great job. You can start early by modeling with your toddlers please and thank-you. Here are two books that I really like, that can get you started in the right direction.

365 Manners Kids Should Know

The Splatters Learn Some Manners

King of Pop

Michael Jackson touched all of us at one point in our lives. For me, his music was so much a part of my life. So what does this have to do with parenting? Now would be a great time to gather the family around and share with them stories about how life was while Michael Jackson's songs were being played. Kids love to hear stories about their parents when they were younger. Everyone can even try to moon walk! I did this with my daughter and even pulled out my Jackson 5 albums. We had a great time and was a good way to honor a legend.

Potty Training

If potty training is on that list for the summer- This is a great website to help you through the ups and downs! Remember to be consistent and positive-They won't go to college in diapers- trust me!

http://www.parentdish.com/category/potty-training/?ncid=emlblstwbbbab00000001

Summer Time

I just ran across a great new book for kids Follow That Map by Scot Ritchie. This is a first book on mapping skills. What a great book for that summer trip and a great learning experience for your child.

New website

My website may look the same, but make note it's under construction- When done it will feel new and improved!!! Look forward to sharing with you some great tools to help in your parenting concerns. Talk soon